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As a dark-skinned Black man, I have faced both overt and subtle instances of racism from white gay men.

The ways in which I have been objectified and fetishized by them has often made me feel that I’m only good enough for sex and not for a relationship.

My childhood in the Black church led me to believe that Black people were inherently homophobic — a myth — and that the only Black men who were gay were on the down low or infected with HIV — also a myth.

Within my own family, I had two gay uncles who died of AIDS-related illnesses before I was 10.

insecure about my Blackness — which is painful and embarrassing to admit.