When he told me that he read women writers because he couldn't relate to them, I should have fled then and there.I didn't and we dated for a few more months but parted ways once we determined we wanted different things from a relationship. We matched on Tinder and he immediately asked me to dinner.
There is an ego boost to swiping right on someone you find attractive, and learning that they find you attractive as well.
Especially for women who are middle-aged and older, it feels nice to be 'seen' at a time when society tells you that you are becoming "invisible" unless you look like Jennifer Lopez or Cindy Crawford.
But if I wasn't and I wanted to spice up my life with a bout of infidelity, there are several dating websites designed with that in mind.
One of the best-known cheating sites is Ashley Madison.
The schedule makes intimacy difficult and the dating (and mating) dance tends to be, well, not very easy.