We know our stance on politics, religion, and spirituality, and we don't need to hide it or pretend otherwise.
In fact, sharing certain beliefs and feelings in an open, non-judgmental way allows for a depth to develop between two people and makes for interesting and enlightening conversations.
Plus, we've been through breakups and found out that, surprise, our lives didn't actually end! We have experienced what we like in bed by now, and aren't afraid to ask for it.
Also, when we were having sex in our 20s, we were constantly worrying if our stomach fat was hanging out, or how our butt looked.
Many of us in our 30s who are single have had the opportunity for that kind of marriage (or perhaps, even were married), but knew in our hearts that there was so much more.