And because the Bible doesn’t specifically warn against a non-believer (more on this later), you’re OK in regard to a sinful behavior that needs to be avoided. Now, I’m not saying this because inherent in her unbelief is some immoral compass that will lead you down a path of sin and debauchery. As a Christian, your life is built on a desire to trust and follow Jesus to the ends of the earth.
In Song of Songs, God has given us a holy and beautiful picture of a marital sexual relationship, and everyone seems to be having an excellent time.
Even there, however, God is clear that sex is "Do not arouse or awaken love before it so desires." (Song of Songs 2:7).
Maybe God has you right where He wants you and this relationship is about pulling her into the Kingdom, instead of drawing you away from God.
I’ve seen MANY couples who’ve been in this position and God has used their love for each other to alter the trajectory of eternity.
We all know what we're talking about here, and these are not the things I mean to address in this column.