That coupled with him treating you like chocolate chip mint on a sugar cone may ultimately mean he’s not your guy.
You don’t have 501(c)(3) status, after all, so if he doesn’t get it right soon, stop the charity and move on.
But here’s the deal—as opposed to my friend who met someone one night and made out with him in a bar, you’ve formed a relationship with this person and it sounds like you’d be interested in pursuing it further.
Since you’ve been dating him for a bit now, you can easily discuss your likes and dislikes and let him know that you love slow, gentle kisses, but have a hard time with an aggressive tonguester.
You’ve been dating him for a month and if kissing were the only problem, that wouldn’t be so bad.
But if you’ve truly tried to talk to him about this, his inability to hear your needs is troubling.
He leaves his mouth wide open and his tongue just goes crazy—I have spit all over my face when we’re done.